Would Your Younger Self Feel Safe Asking You For Help?

Real growth isn't measured by titles, money, or achievements. It's measured by the kind of person you've become when someone else needs you.

Author

Glenda Carnate
July 18, 2026

Read time: 2.5 minutes

The most flattering compliment is not receiving admiration. Rather, it is being the person whom someone trusts enough to seek out in times of difficulty.

Think of who you were when you were younger. Now, imagine, for a moment, that younger self approaching you today with their fears, anxieties, and questions.

Would they trust you enough to seek assistance?

7 Suggestions That Will Lead You To Be The Person Your Younger Self Deserved

1. Listen Before Passing Judgment.
Opening up is easier when one is aware that they will be listened to rather than judged.  

2. Pick Kindness Over Being Right.
Winning an argument rarely saves a life… rather, showing compassion often does.  

3. Build an Environment for Honesty and Openness.
Trust grows when people can communicate their struggles without the fear of being judged.  

4. Share Encouragement.
Sometimes, believing in someone is all that is needed in order for them to believe in themselves.  

5. Grab the Success While Remaining Humble.
Success will mean nothing if it makes us more distant from others.  

6. Lock In On The Moment When It Counts The Most.
Your time and attention may be more important than providing them with your guidance.  

7. Leave Behind A Better Version Of People Than What They Were Before Meeting You.
The best way to be remembered is not for your accomplishments, but for the way people feel after being with you.

💡Key Takeaway: 

Back in your earlier years, you didn't require someone who had all the information you were looking for as much as you needed someone sympathetic who would be there to listen and share in your difficulties.

Speaking for myself, I'd try to become such a person not only for my former self but also for others whom I get to meet now.

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