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Tuesday Truth: You Don’t Transform Companies by Controlling People. You Transform Them by Trusting Them.

How good intentions can quietly hold back bold ideas, and why real leaders make room for others instead of taking it away.

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Glenda Carnate
November 04, 2025

Read time: 2.5 minutes

The biggest lesson in leadership is not about controlling more, but about trusting more and stepping out of the center of every decision that is being made.

There was a time when I used to think being a leader meant reviewing every idea, plan, and step. I believed I was protecting quality, but I was actually slowing things down and showing my team I didn’t trust them. The truth was, I was the roadblock. My habit of always approving and overseeing didn’t help excellence grow; it made people less confident and less willing to take initiative.

Things changed when I stopped asking whether my team was ready and started asking whether I was willing to trust them. The team didn’t change overnight, but my way of leading did. As soon as I let go of some control, they took more ownership... something I hadn’t realized I was holding back. Great leadership is not about always stepping in; it’s about knowing when to step back so others can grow.

5 Leadership Shifts That Turn Control Into Trust:

  • Lead by setting direction and clear boundaries, then let your team handle the details.

  • Shift from giving permission to encouraging ownership. Give your team space to make decisions and support what they choose.

  • Let your team share their ideas before you speak. This helps their thinking come first.

  • Recognize and reward initiative instead of waiting for perfection. Progress and courage help teams grow faster than constant correction.

  • Turn updates into empowerment checkpoints: Ask, “Do you have what you need to run with this?” and genuinely mean it.

💡Key Takeaway: 

When leaders try to control everything, they end up with teams that just follow orders. But when they trust their teams, they help people become leaders who think and act on their own. Letting go doesn’t mean losing authority; it means building more skills, confidence, and shared knowledge. Great leadership is not about holding on tighter but about knowing when to let go so others can develop.

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